Thursday, December 15, 2016


Winter is here and preparing to hit us all right in the face with severe cold. We can complain and worry or bundle up and face it. I personally prefer the latter. This is what makes us all hearty New Englanders! We get to experience the fun and excitement of extreme weather. Wouldn't 68 and sunny all the time get boring? We have snow to play in, ice to skate on and I guarantee Hot Chocolate tastes a lot better here than in Los Angeles at this time of year. And if we head outside and are freezing...well we can go back in, throw on another layer and get back to the wintery fun!

This is the resilient outlook we want our students to learn. They need to see the positive in things. Too often, they worry about grades and final products without enjoying the process or feeling good about hard work. Children need to feel that bumps in the road (a low test grade, a failed experiment, a troubled relationship with a friend) are things they can learn from. They need to be able to move from "I can't do this" to "This may be difficult but I will work hard and get it" or "He's mad at me, we can't be friends anymore" to "We had an issue, we'll work it out soon".

You may hear the term Growth Mindset from your child. Teachers are working diligently this year to try to instill this way of thinking. Based on the work of Dr. Carol Dweck, students are learning how to move from a fixed mindset (people believe their basic qualities, like their intelligence or talent, are simply fixed traits. They spend their time documenting their intelligence or talent instead of developing them. They also believe that talent alone creates success—without effort Dweck ) to a growth mindset (people believe that their most basic abilities can be developed through dedication and hard work—brains and talent are just the starting point. This view creates a love of learning and a resilience that is essential for great accomplishment Dweck).

You can help by praising and modeling effort and resilience. So here's to the resilience of us hearty New Englanders and the growth mindset we can instill in our children to make them truly successful in the future.

Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Happy Thanksgiving! (take a break)

Happy Thanksgiving!

Happy Thanksgiving to all! I know that personally I have a lot to be thankful for. I have a wonderful family. I get to work in an amazing school with dedicated and talented teachers. I am surrounded by smart, kind and inquisitive children every day and have the chance to interact with wonderful families on a daily basis. I hope that as we all pause for a few days we can all take a moment to reflect on things to be thankful for.

Over this short break. I encourage everyone to get out and make some memories. Put away the homework, and electronics; get out and play together or create something together and have some fun. The stress of work and the holidays will still be there on Monday but if you take a little time to recharge your batteries, it won’t seem so bad! Now that my children are 16 and 13 years old, I realize how fast time passes. Take advantage of this time and enjoy the surprises that come from unstructured, silly family time before time gets away from you.

Travel safely, eat a lot and enjoy the break!

Tuesday, November 8, 2016

Helping Stressed Students

The mental health and well being of our students has been a topic of study and discussion for us all due to recent tragic events within the town. As a staff we chose to make this the focus of our November faculty meeting. Although these tragic events took the lives of high school students, we all feel strongly that a focus on student mental health is vitally important at all levels. Unfortunately we are seeing more young students with high levels of stress and anxiety and often wonder about how we can help.

Some of the steps we’ve taken here at Conant to help minimize student stress are focusing on homework to ensure it is high quality, purposeful and not overly time consuming. Planning together as grade levels to ensure due dates for projects and assessments for different classes do not all happen at the same time or on the same day, and encouraging students to realize strong effort and resilience is more important than perfection in a final product. We are not, however, lessening our high academic standards or saying a robust curriculum is not important. It is our belief that a strong curriculum can coexist with a balanced, child centered approach to learning that includes play and unstructured downtime, which are necessary for healthy overall child development.

While we will continue to explore ways we can help our students develop academic strengths and healthy minds and bodies, we also realize the most important and influential people in a child’s life are their families. We’d like to share the following ideas with you as we partner to help all of your students reach their full potential.

  • Reward Strong Effort - We all often get overly concerned with a final grade when we should be looking at how much effort was put into a project. Perfection should not be our focus. Effort, resilience and determination are truly the characteristics that make people successful. Although a good grade is a nice outcome, strong effort and the ability and willingness to deal with difficulty should be praised more so than the final grade.
  • Encourage Play - Busy lives make it hard to just let kids play, but play is the work of a child. Anytime you can, send the kids outside and tell them to play or set up some board games and bring some friends over. Join them if you can, it’s good for everyone!
  • Allow Downtime - Sometimes, children just need time to recharge batteries. In a typical school day, children are learning complex material, learning about social situations, and working very hard. Unstructured downtime is a way kids can process their day, build memory and solidify learning (both academic and social). Kids need a little screen time, some time to read, or draw or talk. Constant engagement in activities is very stressful for developing minds.
  • Maintain Balance - Our students are involved in many engaging cultural, academic and athletic activities. We all see the value in what they learn through these exciting opportunities. Sometimes, however, these pursuits become the only focus of out of school time. It is important that children are not over-scheduled with activities or outside homework. Over-scheduling is often reported as the main stressor for children. Finding balance is key to healthy development!

We thank you for all you do in support of your child’s education and our school community. We hope to partner with you to ensure our students not only excel academically but also develop the work ethic, social skills and persistence needed to truly succeed in our ever changing world. A well balanced, age appropriate education and opportunities for children to play and explore the world on their terms are paramount in developing healthy individuals. We will continue to keep you informed about our own discoveries as we refocus on the whole child, after all, that is the whole idea!

Friday, October 28, 2016

Halloween Parade Tips

The children are clearly excited for next week. Halloween is certainly one an elementary student's favorite days of the year. As you know we'll have our Halloween Parade on Monday at 1:45. I felt it was appropriate to offer some tips as it only happens once a year and some things are easy to forget.

  • Have students bring their costumes in a bag. It is hard for them to concentrate during the day in their costumes and unless your teacher has told you something different, they will have time to change into their costumes before the parade.
  • Please remember, no fake weapons or bloody/gory costumes. We have little ones who could be frightened.
  • Parking will be tight. Please carpool if possible. 
  • Please park in safe areas. There may be children on the playground and in the back fields when you arrive, those places will not be available for parking. 
  • Often, classrooms plan special activities after the parade so plan on letting your child go back to class after the parade and take their normal bus or ride home after dismissal.
  • Please limit the amount of candy children bring to school during the week for snack. One small piece per day is appropriate with a healthy snack and lunch.
  • Have Fun!!!
The PTO is also hosting a Pumpkin Fest on Saturday from 3:00 - 5:00 in the back field. We look forward to seeing you all and wish you a wonderful weekend! 

Wednesday, October 26, 2016

Welcome to My Blog!

Welcome to my new blog. It is my hope that I can keep the community up to date on Conant happenings, district news and share interesting research and articles about timely topics. In this first post I want to thank everyone who worked so hard to make the annual Craft Fair such a huge success. Parents, teachers and even former students all pitched in to make it a successful day for shoppers and vendors alike. In my opinion, the event is an amazing display of how supportive the Conant community has become. It is this team approach we hope to continue to bring to all of our school wide and PTO activities. The more we all get involved the more successful and easier it will become to continue to grow as a school community.

As the cold weather approaches I'd like to remind everyone that it is vitally important that children are dressed appropriately for the weather. Unless it is dangerously cold, dangerously snow or ice storming or raining, students go out to recess. This unstructured play time is vital for their well being, social and educational development. Please remind your children that they don't look cool wearing a T-shirt and shorts in snow...they just look cold!!

Students sometimes have injuries or serious illnesses that make recess a bad option. Often we receive doctor's notes asking to keep children inside during recess. We, of course, find alternate activities for students at this time and keep them in. Sometimes, however, we get notes about keeping a student in from recess because they have a cough or runny nose. Unless we have a note from a doctor or an obvious injury, all students go to recess. If your child is too sick to go out to recess, they are too sick to come to school and should stay home to recover.

Our Halloween parade is set for October 31st. at 1:45 PM. We are looking forward to the festivities. Please remember fake weapons and or gory costumes are better left at home as we have a wide range of ages with a wider range of sensitivities participating and we want our parade to be fun for all. Thank you!